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How Are You Really?™ Conversation Cards
How Are You Really?™ Conversation Cards
How Are You Really?™ Conversation Cards
How Are You Really?™ Conversation Cards
How Are You Really?™ Conversation Cards
How Are You Really?™ Conversation Cards

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How Are You Really?™ Conversation Cards

A card set for real conversations, deeper connection, and feeling truly seen.

$64.99
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Feel truly seen and understood

Reconnect emotionally in just 10 minutes

Deep conversations without the therapy price tag

The gift that brings people closer
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“I got these cards kind of as a last try before suggesting therapy. I didn’t expect much, but wow. The first night, we stayed up talking for hours. He shared things I didn’t even know he was thinking. 

We’ve been using them every week now, and I finally feel like we’re on the same team again!!”

Emma N. (Houston, USA)

Don’t let silence turn you into strangers — remember why you chose each other. 

You’re close — but something’s missing.
You share laughs, plans, maybe even a life. But real connection? It gets buried in the everyday.

You don’t need therapy — just a gentle way to feel close again.


That’s why we created How Are You Really? with a licensed therapist. These cards create a safe space for honest, vulnerable conversations — helping couples, friends, and families slow down, feel seen, and reconnect.
 

No pressure. No awkward talks. Just the spark you’ve been missing.

From Daily Routine to Real Connection

You talk about the kids, the calendar, the groceries… but not each other.
The closeness you once felt? It’s buried under everyday life.
These cards help you gently reconnect — one honest moment at a time.

Turn “fine” into deeply connected

You crave deeper connection… but where do you start?
This deck gives you the words. It lowers the barrier.
So you can go beyond small talk and feel truly seen.

Stop Doing All the Emotional Work Alone

If you’re the one always trying to fix things, we see you.
These prompts make it easy for both of you to show up — no lectures, no pushing.
Just simple questions that open hearts, not defenses.

You Still Love Each Other — But Something’s Missing

You talk about the kids, the calendar, the groceries… but not each other.
The closeness you once felt? It’s buried under everyday life.
These cards help you gently reconnect — one honest moment at a time.

Your new favorite connection ritual — all in one deck

  • Opening and closing questions. Ease into deep talks and end on a warm, safe note.
     
  • 55 deep questions and 15 tasks. Each question and task invites deep reflection and real openness.
     
  • Reviewed and approved by a therapist. Designed to support you at home, whether you’re in therapy or simply want to feel closer.
     
  • Designed so the same people can use them again and get different answers each time.
     
  • Option to add a digital copy to stay connected, even while traveling or apart.

Not for strangers. 
For real connections.

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PRODUCTS

OTHER CARDS

Created with therapist guidance

 ❌ Often made without professional input

For deepening existing bonds

Evolving answers each time

 ❌ Often same repetitive answers after one use

Includes opening & closing questions

 ❌ Usually jump straight in without emotional safety nets.

More than a game — it’s a ritual

Used by therapists & institutions

 ❌ Rarely used professionally
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This isn’t a game with winners or losers — it’s a space just for the two of you.

Use one card a day or whenever you need it most. There’s no right or wrong — just real connection.

Step 1:

Set the scene. Make it comfortable and undisturbed.

Step 2:

Start with the opening question to warm up and ease into the conversation.

Step 3:

Take turns and really listen without interrupting.

Step 4:

Go through the questions and tasks designed to deepen your connection.

Step 5:

End with the closing question to leave you both feeling closer.

Hear from Our Customers

50,000+ Customers Who Love Us

Verified Purchase

"They helped create space to heal from some aspects of the issues. We are not giving up and some days are harder than others."

Customer 

Verified Purchase

"they are a good prompt to start convos that would otherwise be difficult to bring up"

Customer 

Verified Purchase

"I wish you and your endeavors all the best. For what you gave, to me and everyone else- may you learn for yourself and/or your partner, a love unending 💜 thank you!"

Customer 

Verified Purchase

"Our connection has always remained undefined in the 7 years that we were a part of each other's life and in the last two years during the times that we were actively a part of each other's life, we started to be more intentional about our connection and managed to create more depth. However, we continued to separate often and these cards were away for us to get back to the depth of what we had begun to create."

Customer 

Verified Purchase

"We used to just talk about chores, work, and the kid — never about us. I missed feeling close but didn’t want heavy talks or therapy. These cards gave us an easy, safe way to open up again and share what we really feel. Now we actually understand each other better and feel like a real team again."

Customer 

Verified Purchase

"I used to react too quickly and feel misunderstood, which often led to tension and distance. These cards help me sort my feelings first, so I can start gentle, honest talks instead of turning every conversation into a fight. They make it feel safe to open up.”

Customer 

Verified Purchase

"the cards have helped me work through my feeling before reaching out to communicate. Past traumas leave me "reactive" emotionally rather than responsive. While the energy I pick up on is true... the translation of "what it means or is about" is not necessarily what is going on in the other person. The cards help me to have a space to gently begin conversation rather than having the energy of an interrogation!"

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