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    How Are You Really?™ Conversation Cards
    How Are You Really?™ Conversation Cards
    How Are You Really?™ Conversation Cards
    How Are You Really?™ Conversation Cards
    How Are You Really?™ Conversation Cards

    4.8 / 5.0 ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ with over 200+ reviews

    How Are You Really?™ Conversation Cards

    A card set for real conversations, deeper connection, and feeling truly seen.

    $34.99

    Feel truly seen and understood

    Reconnect emotionally in just 10 minutes

    Deep conversations without the therapy price tag

    The gift that brings people closer
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    Transformative

    “I got these cards kind of as a last try before suggesting therapy. I didn’t expect much, but wow. The first night, we stayed up talking for hours. He shared things I didn’t even know he was thinking. 

    We’ve been using them every week now, and I finally feel like we’re on the same team again!!”

    Emma N. (Houston, USA)

    Don’t let silence turn you into strangers — remember why you chose each other. 

    You’re close — but something’s missing.
    You share laughs, plans, maybe even a life. But real connection? It gets buried in the everyday.

    You don’t need therapy — just a gentle way to feel close again.


    That’s why we created How Are You Really? with a licensed therapist. These cards create a safe space for honest, vulnerable conversations — helping couples, friends, and families slow down, feel seen, and reconnect.
     

    No pressure. No awkward talks. Just the spark you’ve been missing.

    BEST CHOICE
    Back to Us – Heal Your Relationship & Grow Together

    Back to Us – Heal Your Relationship & Grow Together

    $154.94
    $79.99

    How Are You Really?™ Conversation Cards (Physical&Digital)

    How Am I Really? Self-reflection Cards (Physical&Digital)

    Love & Desire - Digital set

    4-Week Printable Couples Workbook (Digital)

    Break the cycle of the same fights

    Therapy-inspired tools—without the therapy price tag

    Feel truly heard, even after months of silence

    Fall in love with it (or send it back) — 30-Day Guarantee on All Physical Card Sets.
    The Love & Connection Bundle

    The Love & Connection Bundle

    $69.98
    $54.99

    How Are You Really?™ Conversation Cards (Physical&Digital)

    Love & Desire - Digital set

    Feel more connected — emotionally and physically

    Rekindle your spark and curiosity

    Perfect for date night

    Rekindle your spark and curiosity

    Fall in love with it (or send it back) — 30-Day Guarantee on All Physical Card Sets.

    From Daily Routine to Real Connection

    You talk about the kids, the calendar, the groceries… but not each other.
    The closeness you once felt? It’s buried under everyday life.
    These cards help you gently reconnect — one honest moment at a time.

    Turn “fine” into deeply connected

    You crave deeper connection… but where do you start?
    This deck gives you the words. It lowers the barrier.
    So you can go beyond small talk and feel truly seen.

    Stop Doing All the Emotional Work Alone

    If you’re the one always trying to fix things, we see you.
    These prompts make it easy for both of you to show up — no lectures, no pushing.
    Just simple questions that open hearts, not defenses.

    You Still Love Each Other — But Something’s Missing

    You talk about the kids, the calendar, the groceries… but not each other.
    The closeness you once felt? It’s buried under everyday life.
    These cards help you gently reconnect — one honest moment at a time.

    Not for strangers. 
    For real connections.

    OUR
    PRODUCTS

    OTHER CARDS

    Created with therapist guidance

     ❌ Often made without professional input

    For deepening existing bonds

    Evolving answers each time

     ❌ Often same repetitive answers after one use

    Includes opening & closing questions

     ❌ Usually jump straight in without emotional safety nets.

    More than a game — it’s a ritual

    Used by therapists & institutions

     ❌ Rarely used professionally
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    No winners. No losers. Just a gentle ritual that brings you back to each other.

    Try one of these:

    • Date Night Starter: Pick 1–3 cards after dinner, phones face-down, candles on.
    • One Card a Day: Talk it through on a walk, over coffee, or before bed—10 minutes is enough.
    • Weekly Check-In: Every Sunday, choose one card + share highlights, lows, and one small promise.
    • Pillow Talk: One gentle card under the covers; take turns reading and answering.
    • On the Go: Use the digital copy on your phone—perfect for commute calls or long-distance FaceTime.
    • Anchor It: Keep the deck by the kettle or on the coffee table so “one card” becomes a habit.

    Tip: If a card doesn’t fit today, skip it. The point is showing up, not perfection.

    Step 1:

    Set the scene. Make it comfortable and undisturbed.

    Step 2:

    Start with the opening question to warm up and ease into the conversation.

    Step 3:

    Take turns and really listen without interrupting.

    Step 4:

    Go through the questions and tasks designed to deepen your connection.

    Step 5:

    End with the closing question to leave you both feeling closer.

    Ready for Real Change? Choose Back to Us - Bundle

    • 4-Week Printable Couples Workbook. Weekly themes, daily prompts, and simple rituals to help you reconnect, communicate better, and feel emotionally safe again. 
       
    • Powerful Conversation Cards — designed to spark honest, vulnerable conversations and bring you closer, even long after the workbook ends — to keep your emotional connection strong.
       
    • Self-Reflection Tools for Both of You. Our How Am I Really? journaling set helps each partner explore their own emotions, triggers, and needs. 
       
    • Reviewed and refined by a licensed therapist. Shaped with therapeutic insight to support real, lasting connection at home.
       
    • Therapy-Inspired, Without the Therapy Price Tag. Grounded in real relationship psychology — but designed to be used at home, together, at your own pace.
       
    • No Lectures. No Pressure. No Scripts. Just gentle structure, meaningful moments, and the tools to help you feel like a team again.

    Hear from Our Customers

    50,000+ Customers Who Love Us

    Verified Purchase

    "They helped create space to heal from some aspects of the issues. We are not giving up and some days are harder than others."

    Customer 

    Verified Purchase

    "they are a good prompt to start convos that would otherwise be difficult to bring up"

    Customer 

    Verified Purchase

    "I wish you and your endeavors all the best. For what you gave, to me and everyone else- may you learn for yourself and/or your partner, a love unending 💜 thank you!"

    Customer 

    Verified Purchase

    "Our connection has always remained undefined in the 7 years that we were a part of each other's life and in the last two years during the times that we were actively a part of each other's life, we started to be more intentional about our connection and managed to create more depth. However, we continued to separate often and these cards were away for us to get back to the depth of what we had begun to create."

    Customer 

    Verified Purchase

    "We used to just talk about chores, work, and the kid — never about us. I missed feeling close but didn’t want heavy talks or therapy. These cards gave us an easy, safe way to open up again and share what we really feel. Now we actually understand each other better and feel like a real team again."

    Customer 

    Verified Purchase

    "I used to react too quickly and feel misunderstood, which often led to tension and distance. These cards help me sort my feelings first, so I can start gentle, honest talks instead of turning every conversation into a fight. They make it feel safe to open up.”

    Customer 

    Verified Purchase

    "the cards have helped me work through my feeling before reaching out to communicate. Past traumas leave me "reactive" emotionally rather than responsive. While the energy I pick up on is true... the translation of "what it means or is about" is not necessarily what is going on in the other person. The cards help me to have a space to gently begin conversation rather than having the energy of an interrogation!"

    Customer Reviews

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    Ian
    Being seen, valued and heard

    Each of us has a yearning for connection, yet we are not necessarily taught how to develop that through communication. I love these cards as they help me to go beyond the surface and connect with someone on a much deeper level. Highly recommended for couples and even individuals wanting to communicate in a much more profound way.

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    Tyler
    Way better than I expected

    Some questions were too intense for us, so we skipped a few. But overall, it helped us open up more than we have in a long time.

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    Jillian

    Love them

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    Rachel Adams
    These questions hit deep

    Honestly, I thought it might be a bit cringe. But it’s not. It’s deep, real, and somehow exactly what we needed.

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    Vivian Braun
    Definitely a must have!

    I used my cards when i was having breakfast with my husband, adolescente kids and a friend of my kids. We had a great time interacting in interesting meaningful and deep conversations. We all enjoyed it very much.

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