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Back to Us – Heal Your Relationship & Grow Together
Back to Us – Heal Your Relationship & Grow Together
Back to Us – Heal Your Relationship & Grow Together
Back to Us – Heal Your Relationship & Grow Together
Back to Us – Heal Your Relationship & Grow Together
Back to Us – Heal Your Relationship & Grow Together
Back to Us – Heal Your Relationship & Grow Together

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Back to Us – Heal Your Relationship & Grow Together

A guided at-home toolkit to help couples break toxic communication patterns and rebuild emotional closeness —without the therapy price tag.

$154.94
$79.99

Break the cycle of the same fights

Rebuild emotional closeness that’s gone quiet

Feel truly heard, even after months of silence

Therapy-inspired tools—without the therapy price tag

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Transformative

"We weren’t in a full-blown crisis, but we felt distant. Every serious conversation turned into tension or silence. This toolkit changed everything. The questions brought us closer, and the journaling helped me understand myself better too. We feel more connected now — and when things get tough, we go back to it."

Emily R.

For couples who feel disconnected — but aren’t ready to give up

You still care — but it’s not the same.


The tension, the distance, the same arguments on repeat… It’s like you’re speaking different languages. And therapy? Too expensive, too intense, or just not an option right now.

That’s why we created Back to Us — a 4-Week At-Home reset for couples who want to reconnect emotionally and communicate with more care. 

 

Each week explores a new theme through guided exercises, reflection prompts, and rituals designed to help you reconnect. You’ll receive a printable workbook, self-reflection tools, and powerful card sets for honest, vulnerable conversations — everything you need to rebuild connection, deepen understanding, and feel like a team again.

Stuck in the Same Fights on Repeat

You’re not getting anywhere — just circling the same arguments again and again.

⮕ This reset gives you a new way in: calm, guided prompts that break the pattern and help you hear each other without the heat.

When Silence Feels Safer Than Speaking

You tiptoe around real conversations because they always turn into conflict.

⮕ With weekly themes and rituals, this toolkit helps you talk through hard things without shutting down — and feel safe doing it.

You Try To Open Up- But It Backfires

You share how you feel, hoping it brings you closer… but instead, it leads to defensiveness, shutdowns, or another fight.

⮕ This toolkit helps you both communicate without blame, listen without interrupting, and respond with care — so vulnerability finally feels safe again.

Therapy Isn’t an Option — But Disconnection Isn’t Either

You’ve thought about couples therapy. But the cost, the time, or the resistance makes it feel impossible.

⮕ This is your affordable alternative: therapist-inspired tools to rebuild connection, from the comfort of home.

Therapist-Guided. Evidence-Informed. Relationship-Safe. Doable at Home

Co-created with licensed-therapist guidance, this toolkit blends Attachment/EFT (safety and connection), Gottman repair (turn conflict into closeness), Nonviolent Communication (needs without criticism), and gratitude rituals (build the positive bank). 

 

We did the heavy lifting so you don’t have to: no jargon—just short prompts, gentle scripts, and weekly rhythms that fit real life. 

 

Credible where it counts, simple enough to actually use.

Therapy vs. Back to Us – Toolkit

A side-by-side comparison to help you choose what fits right now.

Back to Us – Toolkit

Couples Therapy

Cost

One-time cost under $100

$100–$250 per session

Scheduling

Do it anytime, at your own pace

Requires appointments & availability

Format

Physical + digital tools you keep forever

In-person or video sessions

Structure

4-week guided plan with weekly themes

Varies by therapist

Reusability

Workbook + 

cards can be used again anytime

Can’t revisit sessions easily

Personal Insight

Self-reflection prompts & journaling tools

Therapist-guided self-reflection

Approved by a Therapist

Yes

Yes

What You’ll Receive

Everything you need to reconnect emotionally, communicate better, and feel like a team again — all in one complete package.

4-Week Printable Couples Workbook (Digital)

Step-by-step structure with weekly themes, prompts, and rituals to rebuild emotional closeness and improve communication. Designed to be used on a tablet or printed out.

How Are You Really? Conversation Cards (physical + digital)

For honest, vulnerable conversations that help you feel truly seen and heard — during the reset and long after.

How Am I Really? Journaling and Self-Reflection Prompts (physical + digital)

Cards that help you process your emotions and understand your own needs — so you can show up calmer, clearer, and more emotionally present in your relationship.

Love & Desire Cards (digital)

A digital card set for emotional and physical closeness — designed to deepen love, curiosity, and connection in your relationship.

Hear from Our Customers

50,000+ Customers Who Love Us

Sean T.

Verified Purchase

"She found this reset kit online and asked me to try it. I wasn’t thrilled, but I agreed. It surprised me. The workbook gave us real things to talk about without it turning into a fight. It helped us understand where we both were emotionally, and it actually made our relationship feel lighter."

Dana M.

Verified Purchase

"We’ve been married 11 years. Love is still there, but we’d stopped checking in emotionally. This gave us structure, not pressure. The journaling helped me process my side before we talked, and the conversation cards sparked so many honest, healing moments. It felt like couples therapy — but in our living room."

Andrea V.

Verified Purchase

"Usually I’m the one researching, initiating, begging for connection. This toolkit made it easy for both of us to show up. The daily rituals were small but powerful, and the reflection cards helped me finally feel like we were on the same page again. Thank you for making this"

Anna M.

Verified Purchase

"We weren’t in crisis, but things felt flat. We just weren’t really talking anymore. This reset helped us have the kind of conversations we used to have when we first fell in love. It made me feel seen again. And my partner actually opened up more than I’ve heard in years.
10/10 recommend to any couple who’s quietly drifting."

Marcus R.

Verified Purchase

"My wife ordered this. I rolled my eyes at first, not gonna lie. But the questions were solid. No cringe. Just real stuff we never talk about. It felt weird at first, but after week 2 I actually looked forward to it. Glad she bought it. I’d recommend it to any guy who wants to reconnect but doesn’t want to go to therapy."

Rachel J.

Verified Purchase

"I was always the one trying to “fix” us. He’d shut down, and I’d spiral. But this gave us a neutral structure. No pressure, no pushing — just guided questions that opened him up. For once, it wasn’t all on me. Thank you. Seriously."

Melanie K.

Verified Purchase

"I bought this because we hadn’t had a real conversation in months. Everything felt tense or surface-level. The weekly structure helped us open up slowly and safely. The cards were so powerful — we said things we hadn’t said in years. Honestly, it brought us back to each other."

Customer Reviews

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Good choice

I wish we could have seen a counselor, but this was the next best thing. It gave us a chance to reset some negative patterns before they got worse

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Hannah
Just buy it

Wasn't expecting him to cry. But he did.

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Samantha
Helped us reconnect

Helped me feel heard for the first time in months.

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Casey
So glad I ordered this

Simple but powerful.

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Hannah
Game changer

Did not expect this to work so well. The journaling especially helped me understand *my* part in the tension between us.

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Back to Us – Heal Your Relationship & Grow Together
Back to Us – Heal Your Relationship & Grow Together
Back to Us – Heal Your Relationship & Grow Together
Back to Us – Heal Your Relationship & Grow Together
Back to Us – Heal Your Relationship & Grow Together
Back to Us – Heal Your Relationship & Grow Together
Back to Us – Heal Your Relationship & Grow Together

Back to Us – Heal Your Relationship & Grow Together

$79.99
Back to Us – Heal Your Relationship & Grow Together
Back to Us – Heal Your Relationship & Grow Together
Back to Us – Heal Your Relationship & Grow Together
Back to Us – Heal Your Relationship & Grow Together
Back to Us – Heal Your Relationship & Grow Together
Back to Us – Heal Your Relationship & Grow Together
Back to Us – Heal Your Relationship & Grow Together

Back to Us – Heal Your Relationship & Grow Together

$79.99
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