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The Connection Kit
The Connection Kit
The Connection Kit
The Connection Kit

4.8 / 5.0 ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ with over 200+ reviews

The Connection Kit

The conversation cards that help you reconnect emotionally and physically—without the awkward silence or fear of saying the wrong thing.

$89.97
$59.99

Break through surface

From emotional safety to physical intimacy

Deep conversations without the therapy price tag

The gift that brings people closer
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Transformative

“I got these cards kind of as a last try before suggesting therapy. I didn’t expect much, but wow. The first night, we stayed up talking for hours. He shared things I didn’t even know he was thinking. 

We’ve been using them every week now, and I finally feel like we’re on the same team again!!”

Emma N. (Houston, USA)

You're Not Roommates. You're Partners. Remember?

You love each other. You just don't talk anymore—not really.

Somewhere between work stress, scrolling phones, and "what's for dinner," you stopped discussing the things that matter. Your needs. Your fears. What you actually want—emotionally and physically.

And now? Bringing it up feels... impossible. Too vulnerable.

 

That's where these cards come in.

 

They ask the questions you've been thinking but not saying. They create a container where honesty feels safe instead of scary. And they guide you from "how was your day" to the raw, real conversations that make you feel like you again—not just roommates managing a life together.

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Back to Us – Heal Your Relationship & Grow Together

Back to Us – Heal Your Relationship & Grow Together

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How Are You Really?™ Conversation Cards (Physical&Digital)

How Am I Really? Self-reflection Cards (Physical&Digital)

Love & Desire - Digital set

4-Week Printable Couples Workbook (Digital)

Break the cycle of the same fights

Therapy-inspired tools—without the therapy price tag

Feel truly heard, even after months of silence

Fall in love with it (or send it back) — 30-Day Guarantee on All Physical Card Sets.
How Are You Really?™ Conversation Cards

How Are You Really?™ Conversation Cards

$64.99
$39.99

How Are You Really?™ Conversation Cards (Physical&Digital)

Feel more connected 

Perfect for date night

Rekindle your spark and curiosity

Fall in love with it (or send it back) — 30-Day Guarantee on All Physical Card Sets.

From Daily Routine to Real Connection

You talk about the kids, the calendar, the groceries… but not each other.
The closeness you once felt? It’s buried under everyday life.
These cards help you gently reconnect — one honest moment at a time.

Turn “fine” into deeply connected

You crave deeper connection… but where do you start?
This deck gives you the words. It lowers the barrier.
So you can go beyond small talk and feel truly seen.

When Physical Intimacy Feels Impossible to Talk About

You lie in bed thinking about what you want—what you wish you could say—but the words won't come. You're afraid of being rejected. Judged. Misunderstood. Maybe you were raised never to talk about sex, and now years into your relationship, you still don't know how.

 

These cards are that way. They ask what you're afraid to ask. They give you permission to say what you've been thinking. And they turn those terrifying conversations into moments of discovery instead of tension.

When You Want Them, But Don't Know How to Say It

The desire is there. You just don't know how to bridge the gap between wanting closeness and actually creating it.

 

Maybe sex has become mechanical. Maybe you're touched out from kids, from stress, from life. Or maybe you want more—more adventure, more vulnerability, more of them—but don't know how to ask without sounding critical.

 

You're not alone. Most couples struggle with this exact thing. The difference is, some figure out how to talk about it. And that changes everything.

 

The Love & Desire digital cards help you explore what you really want, what turns you on, what you're curious about—in a way that feels playful instead of pressured. Intimate instead of intimidating.

What Makes This Different from Other "Couple's Games"

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PRODUCTS

OTHER CARDS

Created with therapist guidance

 ❌ Often made without professional input

For deepening existing bonds

Evolving answers each time

 ❌ Often same repetitive answers after one use

Includes opening & closing questions

 ❌ Usually jump straight in without emotional safety nets.

More than a game — it’s a ritual

Used by therapists & institutions

 ❌ Rarely used professionally
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No winners. No losers. Just a gentle ritual that brings you back to each other.

Try one of these:

  • Date Night Starter: Pick 1–3 cards after dinner, phones face-down, candles on.
  • One Card a Day: Talk it through on a walk, over coffee, or before bed—10 minutes is enough.
  • Weekly Check-In: Every Sunday, choose one card + share highlights, lows, and one small promise.
  • Pillow Talk: One gentle card under the covers; take turns reading and answering.
  • On the Go: Use the digital copy on your phone—perfect for commute calls or long-distance FaceTime.
  • Anchor It: Keep the deck by the kettle or on the coffee table so “one card” becomes a habit.

Tip: If a card doesn’t fit today, skip it. The point is showing up, not perfection.

Step 1:

Set the scene. Make it comfortable and undisturbed.

Step 2:

Start with the opening question to warm up and ease into the conversation.

Step 3:

Take turns and really listen without interrupting.

Step 4:

Go through the questions and tasks designed to deepen your connection.

Step 5:

End with the closing question to leave you both feeling closer.

Ready for Real Change? Choose Back to Us - Bundle

  • 4-Week Printable Couples Workbook. Weekly themes, daily prompts, and simple rituals to help you reconnect, communicate better, and feel emotionally safe again. 
     
  • Powerful Conversation Cards — designed to spark honest, vulnerable conversations and bring you closer, even long after the workbook ends — to keep your emotional connection strong.
     
  • Self-Reflection Tools for Both of You. Our How Am I Really? journaling set helps each partner explore their own emotions, triggers, and needs. 
     
  • Reviewed and refined by a licensed therapist. Shaped with therapeutic insight to support real, lasting connection at home.
     
  • Therapy-Inspired, Without the Therapy Price Tag. Grounded in real relationship psychology — but designed to be used at home, together, at your own pace.
     
  • No Lectures. No Pressure. No Scripts. Just gentle structure, meaningful moments, and the tools to help you feel like a team again.

Hear from Our Customers

50,000+ Customers Who Love Us

Verified Purchase

"They helped create space to heal from some aspects of the issues. We are not giving up and some days are harder than others."

Customer 

Verified Purchase

"they are a good prompt to start convos that would otherwise be difficult to bring up"

Customer 

Verified Purchase

"I wish you and your endeavors all the best. For what you gave, to me and everyone else- may you learn for yourself and/or your partner, a love unending 💜 thank you!"

Customer 

Verified Purchase

"Our connection has always remained undefined in the 7 years that we were a part of each other's life and in the last two years during the times that we were actively a part of each other's life, we started to be more intentional about our connection and managed to create more depth. However, we continued to separate often and these cards were away for us to get back to the depth of what we had begun to create."

Customer 

Verified Purchase

"We used to just talk about chores, work, and the kid — never about us. I missed feeling close but didn’t want heavy talks or therapy. These cards gave us an easy, safe way to open up again and share what we really feel. Now we actually understand each other better and feel like a real team again."

Customer 

Verified Purchase

"I used to react too quickly and feel misunderstood, which often led to tension and distance. These cards help me sort my feelings first, so I can start gentle, honest talks instead of turning every conversation into a fight. They make it feel safe to open up.”

Customer 

Verified Purchase

"the cards have helped me work through my feeling before reaching out to communicate. Past traumas leave me "reactive" emotionally rather than responsive. While the energy I pick up on is true... the translation of "what it means or is about" is not necessarily what is going on in the other person. The cards help me to have a space to gently begin conversation rather than having the energy of an interrogation!"

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Anonymous
Looks interesting

Looks interesting. Haven’t played yet.

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Cheryl C.
YES!

I would buy this item again and again! Please consider bulk pricing! Great tool for work and for my family.

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Hannah
Coffee and cards

These cards are such a simple yet powerful way to connect. My partner and I have started using them every morning over breakfast, and they’ve helped us cut through the small talk and spark conversations that really matter. Highly recommend

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Ian
Being seen, valued and heard

Each of us has a yearning for connection, yet we are not necessarily taught how to develop that through communication. I love these cards as they help me to go beyond the surface and connect with someone on a much deeper level. Highly recommended for couples and even individuals wanting to communicate in a much more profound way.

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Tyler
Way better than I expected

Some questions were too intense for us, so we skipped a few. But overall, it helped us open up more than we have in a long time.

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